Buttons need to hide/unhide along with columns

Good afternoon,

I am on the edge of pulling out what hair I have left. Basically, I have a spreadsheet where I want the buttons to hide when I shrink (hide) the columns, and reappear when I restore the column width (unhide). I've tried formatting the buttons all three ways (don't move, move don't size, move and size), and each doesn't work in their own unique way. Both options to "move" work, but
then stop working as soon as I try to use it on a different computer.

The buttons I'm using are form control buttons.

Thank you very much for any help you can give!