Hmm seems my example isnt working right.
The array thing works wonderfully. But I believe i set the sheet up wrong.

The end result I wanted, was to pick January, and all the january Birthdays appear, and all the january anniversaries appear. Either one would qualify to show up.

But since I am using the Phrase "January" I think it doenst know how to look it up correctly. As it is omitting people who have Jan anniversaries.